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      Quote Originally Posted by laedlaerd View Post
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      it's going around bro. I've had some trouble lately as have many of my acquaintances.
      stay strong and hang in there bro... HMU if u need to chat.

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      I appreciate you, will do. Peace brother
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      I have discovered some things that definitely made up mind on getting the divorce. She doesn't know what I know which is good and keeping things calm so now its just a matter of calmly and gradually cutting the ties off. Freedom is in sight, I must be calculated and calm during this to keep her from trying to fuck me out of my house and things.
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      Quote Originally Posted by JohnMcc View Post
      I have discovered some things that definitely made up mind on getting the divorce. She doesn't know what I know which is good and keeping things calm so now its just a matter of calmly and gradually cutting the ties off. Freedom is in sight, I must be calculated and calm during this to keep her from trying to fuck me out of my house and things.
      Remember: females are usually two steps ahead of any financial strategy years before problems come up. I have seen it...vicious. If you can just do a legal zoom type contract or mediation; it is a win for you. Once lawyers get involved: anything you guys have gets eaten up.
      Lawyers are needed but damn, they suck anyone dry. If together over 5 years{even unmarried} a lot of states: give 1/2 of everything + spousal support to females, even if it was money you made before meeting. I had an aunt that siphoned off my uncles money to actual off shore bank accounts for months before he divorced her. She saw it coming and she was from a town of 150 and did not seem like a savvy business shark! Funny thing is: they are remarried too! How ironic! My papa and his little brother both are with their original wives!! Have been for over 10 yrs now. Not to be negative; just cautious. Btc is @ $13,133 per coin, lol John's Daily Log!!

      Max

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      Quote Originally Posted by maxmuscle1 View Post
      Remember: females are usually two steps ahead of any financial strategy years before problems come up. I have seen it...vicious. If you can just do a legal zoom type contract or mediation; it is a win for you. Once lawyers get involved: anything you guys have gets eaten up.
      Lawyers are needed but damn, they suck anyone dry. If together over 5 years{even unmarried} a lot of states: give 1/2 of everything + spousal support to females, even if it was money you made before meeting. I had an aunt that siphoned off my uncles money to actual off shore bank accounts for months before he divorced her. She saw it coming and she was from a town of 150 and did not seem like a savvy business shark! Funny thing is: they are remarried too! How ironic! My papa and his little brother both are with their original wives!! Have been for over 10 yrs now. Not to be negative; just cautious. Btc is @ $13,133 per coin, lol John's Daily Log!!

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      Her and I went through the whole mutual divorce process once before about a year and a half ago, no lawyers because neither of us owned anything. We only had to each provide one more signature and we would've had divorce decree in hand. Im hoping it's still on file at the court house. If not I explained to her that while she has the ability to take half the value of the house, doing so would put us both on the street. Where as since things are calm and stable, I told her she can stay here for a month or 2 when her new job starts up. This will let her build up her own base to survive on her own, something she's never had to do. So it only makes more sense to keep things peaceful because we both will end up with more in the long run and she verbally confirmed that that is the correct thing to do. So now I just have to wait and distance myself so I can cut ties easier. I will be busy with work the next 3 weeks which will help create that distance between us and make it easier for her to prepare to have to take care of herself.

      Once she's moved out though I can start some new business ventures I've had on the back burner that will hopefully afford me some financial freedom. The end goal being I have incomes that indont have to leave the house to earn. I can be semi retired in my early 30s if things go as I have envisioned.
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      Quote Originally Posted by JohnMcc View Post
      So many different waves of emotion have come and gone from both of us last night into this morning. She said she has no desire to take half of the house value, she is still angry though. I heard her on the phone with either family or friend and she sounded much more calm once she got stuff off her chest. She was talking about hunting deer so she is thinking about how to provide for herself which is a step towards accepting this change. I hope things can remain peaceful, im so tired of the arguing and guilt trips. I just want peace, no more mental breakdowns, no more smoking bowl after bowl of pot to numb myself so I can hold all this frustration in. I just want peace and to be alone for a while.

      She threw the idea of her killing herself because we aren't together in my face. I told her I cant change how she feels only she can do that, I said she can't live for me anymore but instead she has to live for herself and create her own happiness. That's hard for a person with depression, but then again I was depressed and im creating my own happiness as we speak, granted im not initially happy about this but I know I will be alright in the long run. I wish for her to find her own happiness and start living her fullest life.
      Damn dude I looked right over this one!

      Hope all is going as well as it can my man. So many ppl are going through some straight Bs itís crazy.

      Sounds like u got ur head on straight though. Wishing the best for the other takes a strong man couldnít say I would do the same John's Daily Log.

      Go kick some ass now dude. Itís all about u getting ur shit on point and firing on all cylinders

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      Quote Originally Posted by Popeye* View Post
      Damn dude I looked right over this one!

      Hope all is going as well as it can my man. So many ppl are going through some straight Bs it’s crazy.

      Sounds like u got ur head on straight though. Wishing the best for the other takes a strong man couldn’t say I would do the same John's Daily Log.

      Go kick some ass now dude. It’s all about u getting ur shit on point and firing on all cylinders
      Thank you brother, fortunately I have grown as a human being and know that losing my cool over it all will only hurt me and cause more pain. I am in control of my happiness and I made up my mind when I spoke the words to her that I am going to manifest my own happiness. Am I sad, of course. I can't live for someone else though, so I seek peace in that thought.

      I can feel with every once of my being that once she is gone and on her own I will find happiness and success. I can already envision my financial freedom, my dreams coming true, and I sit with myself spiritually knowing I have the power to create it all.
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      Got to our hotel for the work trip, the gym has 50lb DBs and 3 different cardio machines so i should be able to do some kind of rehab work.
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      I went to the Walmart next to the hotel and was able to get some groceries to make eating healthy easier and cheaper. I didnt sleep for shit last night though because I kept waking up.
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